‘ve been busy with holiday matters, and I imagine you all have been as well. I’ll be back to blogging more seriously (including new posts in the Agreements Workbook series) in the new year. In the meantime, for your information, here are some references on raising children in polyamorous/non-monogamous families. These would be helpful to any who are looking for actual data to back up assertions that kids raised in poly households aren’t any worse off than kids raised in monogamous (or in some cases supposedly monogamous!) households. Mostly there’s not a lot of stuff out there… yet. Fortunately, people ARE investigating these questions, and more and more people are becoming interested as time goes on. Thanks to my fellow denizens of the Poly Researchers list who compiled the references, and formatted them consistently. I’ll be putting this in my resources tab for future reference.
Happy Holidays, Happy New Year, and may your days and nights be full of much love, with as many loves as you wish!
Barker, Meg & Langdridge, Darren. (2010). Understanding Non-monogamies. London: Routledge.
Lanham, MD: Rowman & Littlefield.
Pallotta-Chiarolli, Maria (2006). Polyparents Having Children, Raising Children, Schooling Children. Lesbian and Gay Psychology Review, 7 (1), (March 2006), 48-53.
Pallotta-Chiarolli, Maria. (2010). To Pass, Border or Pollute: Polyfamilies Go to School. In Meg Barker & Darren Langridge (Eds.), Understanding Non-Monogamies. New York, NY: Routledge.
Pallotta-Chiarolli, Maria, Haydon, Peter; & Hunter, Anne. (In press, 2012). These Are Our Children: Polyamorous Parenting. In Katherine Allen & Abbie Goldberg (Eds.), LGBT-Parent Families: Possibilities for New Research and Implications for Practice. London: Springer.
Sheff, Elisabeth. (2011). Polyamorous Families, Same-Sex Marriage, and the Slippery Slope. Journal of Contemporary Ethnography, 40 (5), (October 2011), 487-520,
Sheff, Elisabeth. (2010). Strategies in Polyamorous Parenting. In Meg Barker & Darren Langridge (Eds.), Understanding Non-Monogamies. London: Routledge.
Constantine, Larry L., & Constantine, Joan M. (1976). Treasures of the
Island: Children in Alternative Families. Beverly Hills, CA: Sage Publications.
Constantine, Larry L., & Constantine, Joan M. Group Marriage: A Study of Contemporary Multilateral Marriage. New York: Macmillan, 1973, pp. 148-162.
Constantine, Larry L. (1977) Where are the kids? Children in Alternative Life Styles. In Libby, Roger W., & Robert N. Whitehurst (Eds.), Marriage and Alternatives: Exploring Intimate Relationships (pp. 257-263). Glenview, IL: Scott, Foresman & Co.
Johnston, C., & R. Deisher. (1973). Contemporary communal child rearing: a first analysis. Pediatrics, 52(3), (September 1973), 319-326.
Salsburg, Sheldon (1973). Is group marriage viable? Journal of Sex Research 9(4), (November 1973), 325-333.
Weisner, T.S. (1986). Implementing New Relationship Styles in Conventional and Nonconventional American Families. In Hartup, W., & Z. Rubin (Eds.), Relationships and Development (pp. 185-206). New Jersey: LEA Press.
Weisner, T. S., & H. Garnier. (1992). Nonconventional family lifestyles and school achievement: A 12-year longitudinal study. American Educational Research Journal 29(3), 605-632.
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